relationship advice

Summary:

• The OP’s girlfriend kissed someone else in front of him, showing a complete lack of respect for the relationship.
• Behavior was bizarre, disrespectful, and inconsistent with her words.
• She showed deep disregard for the OP, demeaning him in front of others.
• It appears she deliberately provoked the OP.
• A relationship without trust isn’t healthy; it's a deal-breaker.

Feedback:

• Users strongly advise ending the relationship due to the disrespectful behavior.
• Lack of reaction from the OP at the time was noted and may warrant introspection or therapy.
• The girlfriend’s excuses were seen as deflecting responsibility and lacking true empathy.

frontend vs. full stack

Summary:

• Demand for full-stack developers is increasing, leading to more job opportunities.
• frontend development requires specific skills and is valued for design, scalability, and code quality.
• ml (machine learning) skills are seen as valuable but require passion-driven learning.
• ML roles are limited, but full stack is more versatile and valuable long-term.
• Brevity and practicality were suggested in breaking up workload.
• It’s not only about acquiring certification but about building practical skills.
• ML roles may require a master's degree; pursuing data engineering or ml/devops may be beneficial.

Pros and Cons:

• Pros of full stack: Versatility, broader skill set, adapting to evolving industry trends.
• Pros of frontend: Enhanced design skills, code quality, scalability.
• Cons of ML: Limited job opportunities, need for specialized skills.
• Cons of full stack: May lack depth in specific areas, limited time for mastering all skills.
• Cons of frontend: Risk of oversaturation, evolving technologies require continuous learning.

disrespectful partner

Summary:

• The OP's partner behaved bizarrely, kissed someone else in front of him, and was inconsistent with her words.
• Users view this as cheating and deeply disrespectful behavior.
• Suggestions to end the relationship, citing deceitful actions and lack of respect.
• Actions pointed to a lack of emotional maturity and self-worth degradation.
• OP exhibited understanding and self-respect by addressing the disrespect.

Feedback:

• End the relationship due to her disrespectful actions and behavior.
• Address the lack of emotional maturity, deceit, and self-respect in the relationship.
• Explored the option of therapy for understanding emotional reactions and responses.
• Emphasized the need for self-respect and recognizing disrespectful behavior in the relationship.