Roommate Situation and Transphobia
Summary: The OP discovers a list ranking women's attractiveness including his girlfriend and asks for help in dealing with the aftermath of the situation.
Some comments criticize the girlfriend's transphobic behavior:
- Mention of OP's young age when the relationship started with the older girlfriend raises eyebrows (OP was 17 and she was 22).
- Focus on the girlfriend's transphobic behavior calling the situation insane and crazy.
The consensus praises the OP for standing up against transphobia and respecting his roommate's privacy regarding his identity.
Some express concern for the potential roommate if they are indeed trans, preventing the OP from asking and risking the roommate's comfort.
The ex-girlfriend's actions are condemned as transphobic, and the OP is encouraged for handling the situation appropriately.
Workplace Misconduct and Accountability
Summary: A coworker creates an inappropriate list at work, causing discomfort to another coworker who informs the employer.
Comments commend the actions of the coworker for bringing the misconduct to HR despite the coworker's denial of knowledge until proven by a screen capture.
They note the shock by some commenters at the perpetrator's appearance not aligning with expectations based on the offense committed.
Speculation on the state of the coworker's personal life and its possible role in his inappropriate behavior, with skepticism about him reconciling the incident and potential consequences.
Gary's actions are described as inappropriate, with emphasis on the severity of his actions.
Praise is given to the OP for taking action and showing the HR evidence of the misconduct.
Discussion around giving second chances and allowing people the opportunity to make amends but not forgetting the impact of inappropriate behavior.
